2nd part of Life

Hehehe! in 80’s Hong Kong been through this … and after 20+ years is our turn… we are just too slow … hahahaha

Recently there was a force building up in my heart, it is all about Malaysia 12th General Election! let me list down things that I personally felt not right.

1. Some youngsters, even adults try to be ignorant about politics. Do they care about their living environment, their education, their career and opportunity? Maybe and maybe lah, they think that the vote in their hand can’t change the whole picture. If only you, of cause cannot change lah, but what if everybody put their hands together?

2. Vote for rep. or vote for party? Voting for the right rep, u get to improve your living environment, lower down the crime rates, haning more public facilities (provided your rep really do it for you!) Cast your vote on party means you are agreeing on that party vision on our country, it is far beyond things surrounding you, it is for the future of our country and our next generation!  Personally, i did wonder about this question before but NOT NOW anymore.

3. If you ask me how to know which party/person telling the truth? I can assure you I don’t know! In my humble opinion, I think, yala i think only, that you cannot have someone to monopolize in something! This is not right in business world so do the politics! it is very basic and simple in the demand and supply relationship. We shouldn’t demand on BN where they can’t supply much and pushing up the stakes

Can’t think more liao, my mind full of BN shits which really bother me these days. I can’t deny that any party in power will totally eliminate this kind of shits, but i am sure it will greatly reduced!

CAST YOUR VOTE WISELY!

It has been quite … actually very long i didn’t blog. Today is 元宵节, a Chinese Valentine’s day. I had 2 cans of Calsberg and start writing this blog.

Many things happened recently, it all about my life, my career, my family, my love, etc. finding solution for each and every matter is neither easy nor difficult, it is just time consuming and need some serious decision making. I am optimistic because I believes there always more than 1 solution to a matter, thus finding the best or most suitable solution is the key.

Since today is Chinese Valentine’s day, so lets talk about love. I fall for a girl quite sometime ago, and because I am lacking of self confidence and had a self protecting mindset. I took too long to confess. I do not know what in her mind but obviously I have no chance. However, I still would like to say something here. No matter who she will become in the future, I will treat her like my close friend or family members wholeheartedly.

About some time ago, my friend bad mouth about a girl he loves so much, because he was hurt badly. I can understand his frustration but I not quite understand why he would say such thing about that girl he loved. Chinese says 爱之深，责之彻, but I think it is more proper to talk face to face with her and not to us.

He and the ‘God Evil’ ask me about something very personal which involved my ex. I felt very uncomfortable, and of cause I never tell them. I would keep it for myself because I think this is a way to protect someone that I loved before.

OK la, don’t know what to write already. I am logging on facebook to buy some leng lui as my pet to virtually please myself.

Happy 元宵节 and Happy Chinese New Year!!

Come on everybody listen to this song and learn some useful internet abbraviation!

While we learn the abbreviation, I do come across a word used in the lyrics - White Terror

White Terror refers to acts of violence carried out by reactionary groups as part of a counter-revolution. Often, such acts were carried out in response to (and/or followed by) similar measures taken by the revolutionary side in the conflict.

    source ~ Wikipedia

I am sure after u watched the MV, you can easily recognise the singer. Yeah, he is namewee! Suddenly he makes me think of Sam Hui from Hong Kong.

Randy is our designing team senior, and as you would expected, a high profile and confident person. Please don’t get me wrong, he isn’t a kind of person that like to show off and getting limelight out of others. In fact he is a nice guy which is helpful and gentle. Many colleagues loved him but of cause some doesn’t, from my eye, those who doesn’t like him are people who can’t take criticism.

The farewell started on Tuesday lunch where the company spend us, the big crowd in a Chinese restaurant. the food is nice and the main purpose is to EAT. Of cause we had lots of chitchatting and photo taking session. But we had a BAD news during the lunch which was our big big boss has just passed away.

On Wednesday, the most awaiting karaoke session were held after work @ Mid Valley MyKTV. Nothing to shout about on the food, sound system, song collections. etc. but the atmosphere wasn’t bothered by all these. Randy is the focus of the night because he is a good singer. Everybody had a share of the mic quite equally and surprisingly most of the people can sing! We can have more and more karaoke session now!

Today, Friday is casual day. Randy wear contact lens for the 1st time (maybe is my 1st time seeing him wear contact lens), a change of attire makes him look fresh. We again go for lunch in a big group, and we went for Hong Kong style restaurant. Lets not talk about the food but Randy, everybody talks/listen to him and enjoy every single moment. He is actually a very chatty and forthcoming person. After all is the speech giving time by our beloved Mr. Randy. sending out his gratitudes and appreciations to everybody, in the meantime giving each of us a word or two.

Office hour ends at 5.30pm, as usual we all would stay on except Randy which he has finish his service in this company and go on shake hand with everybody and say goodbye. The minutes he walks out the office door, the atmosphere suddenly become quiet and dull. His leaving really got such a big impact? lets find out in few weeks time. hehehe

P/S: Randy is now my ex-colleague, Shing Yee is my Net friend. Randy and Shing Yee are very close friends, How close and to what extend then I don’t know liao.

Tuesday, 18 Sept
This is my 1st time in 30 years, received a hand bouquet. She is my net friend for many many years. When the flower delivered to my office, I was in a training. I didn’t get the surprise on that very moment. but was happy to see my colleague (his birthday) to receive a big hand bouquet. the whole office focused on him.

After the training, i come out and say to my colleague, "oh, is it from Penang?" "Yes! I have verified. and you got 1 too." as I was shocked while i walk toward my cubicle and saw the bouquet laying on my desk. I can’t really describe my feeling, beside shock, happy, wonder and it was "Like this also can?"

Hehehe, let me explain the situation here. My net friend named Shing Yee, we know each other about 10+ years back via IRC. She is my colleague’s schoolmate while they pursuing their higher study in UK, they are closed and good friend. On Monday evening I received her sms asking for my office address, immediately I know she wanna send him a present. But without any expectation, she sent him a big hand bouquet and sent me a small 1.

A guy received a bouquet sure create some hoo-haa in the office, some more she didn’t put her name on it, thus it become a mystery for everybody to find out. My colleagues’ imagination are good and they started many versions of story for this incident. Someone even ask me that my bouquet is from hill top or not. As positive rumors around, there are no shorts of negative comments, sounds like it is ridicules for me to received such a bouquet, and i got it at someones expense。

We are human, we always got positive and negative comments. We used to received it selectively. Sometime, when we really think about it, it can be facts that we don’t want to accept. But the most important is to adjust your emotion/mood when it was affected, control your EQ. For me, I just ignore it la, as long as I am Happy! Hehehehe

Do we know that our Kementerian Sumber Asli dan Alam Sekitar did put in some effort for the environment? maybe after this video clips we can create more awareness among the young and adults.

was reading on 无聊小站 and catches this video

"I wanna get marry"
"oh, Congrat! Who is the lucky one?"
"wanting u to intro 1 lo…"
"ha? then why u said wanna get marry?"
"it’s time……"

Any of you out there takes time as the main and
major criteria to get marry? It sound ridicules to me, as from my
understanding, it should be built from love, trust, responsibility and many
more. You looking for marriage while you haven’t found the right person is
something like getting a car before you actually taking the driving lesson. Time
can be one of the element but I don’t think setting a deadline for it is
anyway sensible.

Putting a deadline on when to get marry sounds like you
are running a project where milestone has to be achieve and the deadline must
be meet. I don’t mean that is not good, but it is a bit tied up with
limitations or constraints. Life should be something wonderful and
unpredictable and you will have a lot of surprises along the way.

I came across some friends who are married and when they
have been asked about “why you get marry?” the answer I normally get is “it’s
time……” or “when you reach that stage, you will know.” So from these
conversations, the idea I got is they don’t really know why or they just
confused and follow what normal people do. It is kind of sad do you think?

A marriage certificate is what? It is just a contract that
protect both parties, when something bad happen, one will have to compensate
the other party. This is a typical capitalism ways of doing things. We take a
step further, when your partner break the rules on the marriage act, he/she
actually breaking your heart too, and what are those compensations can do to
mend you broken heart?

Back to “it’s time……” take these example and see;
“Why you wanna eat?” – “It’s time……”
“Why you wanna buy a house?” – “It’s time……”
“Why you wanna change a job?” – “It’s time……” 

Do you found these answers make more sense?
“Why you wanna eat?” – “because I am hungry”
“Why you wanna buy a house?” – “because my family is
expanding”
“Why you wanna change a job?” – “because I wanna meet new
people, take new challenges or change new environment”

What I would like to highlight here is, when we going make a
decision, we should go to the root of the issue. Not simply think that it’s
time to do so, or everybody doing so at this point of life and you just follow.
Everyone have their own agenda in life, when you are making some big decision,
please be sure that you are addressing the root of the problem and bare the
consequences and responsibility.

It seems like somebody is taking "advantage" of the hottest news in town and try to prove themself!
However if you got nothing to prove and yet you try to stand out in front then you are just putting your a$$ up high for people to KICK!!!

source

关于“明志”，我将会去听一听由民主行动党主办的讲座，有兴趣和喜欢明志的人请踊跃参加吧。jeff ooi到时会到场。
地点：雪华堂
日期：22/08/2007
时间：8pm 

eh… really dunno i will be arrested for this or not ?
guilty of ‘re-posting’ other’s ppl intellectual property..

fast fast see as i dare not keep it on my blog for long ..
i m sure kenny sia can catch me!

anyway just have fun la. source from www.kennysia.com